If you are happy, if you are feeling good, then nothing else matters.
Robin Wright

Quick Entry!  I am expected to make breakfast in a bit.  I choose to make breakfast in a bit.  Found some peace in a bit of clarity gained yesterday.  Once again I was reminded that the most important thing in this thing called life is to "feel good",  Feeling good is not a selfish act ...on the contrary ...it is the best thing we can do for others.  Think of it this way...who offers you more on a miserable day?  The cranky person who criticizes you or the genuinely warm and happy person who sees nothing wrong in you or anything?  Who, of these two, are you more likely to gravitate towards?  Who, of these two, inspires you more to do your best? Who, of these two, would you rather be like?   When we feel good we radiate at a different level than we do when we feel bad...we give off a different energy, a different level of compassion. We make others feel better, if they choose to stay around us, when we are happy.  Striving towards feeling good, over even doing good, may be the answer. 

All is well.